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# Some gifted kids are perfectionists and idealistic and may
equate achievement and grades with self-esteem and self-worth. This can lead to
fear of failure and can interfere with their achievement in and out of school.
# The social and emotional development of a gifted child may
not be at the same level as their intellectual development. (Note: Just because they TALK like adults, doesn’t
mean they are yet!)
# Gifted kids may experience heightened sensitivity to their
own expectations and those of others, producing constant guilt over
achievements or grades.
# Some gifted kids are "mappers" (sequential
learners), while others are "leapers" (spatial learners). Leapers
often can't say how they got a "right answer." Mappers may get lost
in the steps leading to the right answer.
# Gifted kids may be so far ahead of their chronological age
mates that they know more than half the curriculum before the school year
begins! Their boredom can result in low achievement and grades. (Note: While this may
have been true in elementary school, it is generally NOT true at the middle
school level.)
# In school, gifted kids may need real problems to work on
in order to achieve at high levels. Gifted students often refuse to work for
grades alone. (Note: Just as with
other children their age, it’s up to parents to “raise the bar” and let their
child know what they consider an acceptable level of performance. Teachers of
gifted students believe that ALL of their students are
capable of making Bs in academic classes.)
# Gifted kids often think abstractly and with such
complexity that they may need help with study and test taking skills. For example,
they can
justify ALL the answers in a multiple choice question, or they skip reading test
instructions because they are impatient.
# Gifted kids who do well in school may define success as
getting an "A" and failure as any grade less than an "A."
By early adolescence they may be unwilling to try anything where they are not
certain of guaranteed success. On the other hand, some gifted students are quite
confident in their own intellectual ability and simply
have no interest in maintaining good grades.
(These common myths and truths
about giftedness are from the Council for Exceptional Children
and the combined experience of HG teachers with many
years experience teaching gifted children.)
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